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trans girl living in seattle.
anyone vaguely queer (inc’l grunglers) are welcome to follow me here; if you're not a weird gender person you might find my main account @gintoxicating more approachable
some delectable quotes about me:
"closing your mouth and breathing hard won't push the air into your boobs to make them grow, please stop" ~my medical doctor
"so much for the tolerant left, you rancid bitch" ~conservative dude on reddit
silence ~voice coach after ghosting me i did so bad
"i can't believe she's 10 years older than us, how pathetic" ~popular fedi user
"you're like what batman would do if the only crime he cared about was that there's no one inside him" ~cishet friend from grindr
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exclude boostswhat do you mean, all of my nudes are autistic
my version of "get out of your media bubble and hear out both sides" is reading theory from both communists and anarchists
still working on this metaphor, but a guy cancelled our date last minute because he was tired from work and it’s like saying “oh I found a winning lottery ticket but I didn’t stop to pick it up because I was too sleepy” smh men are cursed
being absolute shit at flirting with girls is kind of my brand but it’s making my bisexuality more theory than praxis
my only move : sit there, look pretty, wait to be kissed, be a good kisser
“tell me you don’t use discord without telling me you don’t use discord”
my god it’s been enshittifying already for years and it hasn’t been subtle lol
type of flirting[1] where you insert[2] footnotes in your pick up lines[3]
[1]: yk when you plead at each other
[2]: imagine: robotthing with its only purpose being a rdbms server
[3]: is 
cw (consensual words)
does anyone in a safer country wanna see if we like each other then get married and I can escape the US into your arms/civil jurisdiction
skillset: cute, trans friendly, my friends sometimes say I’m pathetic and I think as a compliment, strong people pleaser vibes from past relationships, high growth potential (boobs), wordplay
positive attributes: born to bottom but serves society as a top, doting parental energy, soft as a kitten but fierce as a traumatized queer, gay, honestly I smell really good, not a spider dressed as a woman, cute outfits and home decor
accomplishments: literally created a girl from the remnants of a broken man, one time I posted something funny online, is way better adjusted than you might assume (lots of therapy)
LinkedIn available upon request but fr folks on grindr find it easily enough (cute date idea: improving my infosec)
fuck it 
Seriously every other American trans woman who seems cognizant of things is way ahead of me escaping
jesus christ. so many people here, even trans people, won’t let trans women talk about or center their unique experiences of marginalization and it’s fucking bullshit
the world treats trans women in distinctly horrible ways and we deserve to talk about it and share it. if you pop into the replies to minimize women and center men and enbies instead, you are a misogynist that is explicitly talking over women
if your only thought is it’s exclusionary to talk about, I’m curious what other intersectional marginalization you would clap back at the same way. please scream your answer into the smoky blackness as you die in a fucking fire
men
change profile name to "kawaii dom"
man: "oh you're a hawaiian babe huh"
i think i'm playing along with a joke
oh no he was serious and is now offended
oh no it keeps happening
this would fix me
idk it’s just cute when british girls say they’re having tea i can’t change that it’s adorable
my new chair comes today and it’s really gay and im super excited and basically what im asking is would you like to sit on my lap in the chair 
so wait only algorithmic feeds are available on big mastodon servers now? idk I’m not an algorithmphobe but this sucks.
trending is censored, recommended accounts builds a bland monoculture and encourages clout chasing and is censored, and I’m guessing followed hashtags are just tiny subsets of that corpo vibe
mastodon needs to stop trying to be a global corporate social media site. that’s bluesky. they won that battle stop trying and also be glad because that battle sucks.
fedi (and mastodon as part) has strength in that it is a community of communities
heaven forbid the cishet white people see a queer in their feed 
Me: I'm very tired
Them: Why don't you do this thing that requires a lot of effort? It will help you.
autistic people should be far less likely to mansplain because they did it once, learned why it affects another person, and now have a rule to not do it
most autistic people are more empathetic than neurotypical people - we actually want to learn how to treat people with kindness
i saw this happen once, the replyguy very earnestly explained he didnt understand how what he had done was inconsiderate. some random other user explained it, replyguy gives his sincere apologies, likely now is just,.. guy
it’s mostly neurotypicals that use principles as reason to abuse someone

