transister.social

Twitch’s SUBtember celebration isn’t what I hoped

A new experience for me is simultaneously disliking someone while respecting what she does and provides for my community.

It’s hard to keep the memory of how I was personally hurt by her disdain for me separate from how much she otherwise supports trans women. And I certainly do not always succeed.

But I see how we are treated everywhere else. I see how disposable we are in so many places. I know how hard it already is to exist as a trans woman, and don’t have my head in the sand about how much harder it will continue to get.

I will always be hurt by what happened, and won’t ignore the parts of me that hold that pain. But we are all an alloy of many things and I’m trying to recognize that better.

transbian moots living the dream not having to understand how truly exhausting men are

Hey not to brag but I figured out how to accept follow requests finally

Gotta let a guy know he’s losing his all-access ginny pass and I’m feeling awkward but I told my therapist I was gonna do it so I have to do it by Monday.

Things were way easier when I would just lie or sabotage shit.

truly don't understand guys who say they have conventional values but not specify whose convention

mine are pretty weird

im now to run communication by a trusted third party before ginnying all over the place, everything’s coming up ginhouse

exhausted but i still have a work apology to write before electrolysis (i asked a question at work)

new stickers for my work laptop :)

“I wouldn’t wear a skirt that short to Costco”

skill issue

she got blocked from tfs a while back so I forgot how little I actually understand about rose’s memes; Gen Z is cooked (compliment)

Oh btw if you get a request from @ginny that is me I’m slowly deciding if I wanna move to a self hosted instance :3

now i just have to think of something funny to say…