transister.social

coming out at work was the only decision I regret. i think it made a big difference in my ability to identify as myself, but it was a stupid risk i should have avoided for probably ever

what’s your latency between someone flirting with you and you knowing someone is flirting with you?

my median is ~3 days but there’s a hell of a long tail

( if you’re in real time, DNI )

i participated in social work discussions at my progressive workplace for 17 years without a single issue

it took 13 days being out as a trans woman for a guy to complain to my manager

yeah well I'm gonna go build my own theme park! with therapists and HRT..,,

do I want to be part of a polycule or just want a group chat with people who think I'm tolerable?

9 y.o.'s review of hot chocolate: pretty good, buut I like water better

breakfast is the third most important meal of the day

the fediverse is a social media network for people who have terrible parents

how is it my fault I misunderstood what you meant when you said you were a doggirl and also does this mean you do not want the collar I got you

today's a "mixing up my scanner and my shredder" kinda day

:windOwOs:

i shouldn’t register whowho.meme

my “take your estrogen” reminder deadnames me because it comes from a gmail account i made years ago, to catfish people

(i pretended to be a boy and people bought it, cis people are gullible lol)

Advent of Code, but the puzzles you solve are bug fixes for open source projects

exactly like first puberty, at some point I'm gonna need to figure out how bras work

fedi / masto feature idea: lists, but useful

they work in the exact opposite way of how a list currently works in mastodon/most fedi software. instead of controlling what I see, it controls what subset of my followers sees my post.

here’s how i imagine it for me picking some random stuff:

• one line jokes
• bad puns
• transgender rage
• verbose nonsense 🔓
• linux 🔓
• selfies 🔒
• personal angst 🔒

a default follow pre-selects the first three lists. the unlocked lists aren’t default selections but, like an unlocked account don’t require approval to join. the locked lists you can request and require approval

when I post, i pick one or more categories for the post. people on that list, see the post.

ideally different lists could be rendered or decorated differently when shown

(could this be useful for plural folks? especially if you can make posts to the different “lists” look notably different to the reader)

lb was how I realized I make a bad game play tester I think he said “i didn’t think anyone would do that” at least twice

looking for guests for my podcast , no special hardware necessary because I don't record it or talk to you,,. we just think about the same thing for a while, independently, then go on with our lives

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