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i post for attention and affection (it's a youngest child thing): memes, tech rambles, newly acquired domain names, and short irreverent nonsense i think is funny. ymmv.
seattle based. single parent. self-unemployed after >20 years in big tech
created 1st mastodon account: 2022-12-22
found out i was a girl: 2022-12-22
(former was causal to the latter)
i donāt use ai in my writing because it capitalizes words, and also because writing is the fun part for me (you do you!)
ask me about my banger domain names!
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holy shit the CEO of girlcock
badass
"are you emotionally stable?'
no bitch I already told u im transfemme smh
why do they make skirts with built in shorts
what is the point of a skirt I canāt let someone look up, I could just wear pants ffs
fuck this noise, i matched with a crazy hot trans girl and now I don't need fedi anymore
i donāt ever watch tv, but i do spend a lot of time dissociating while the tv is on doing its whole thing
gonna start using āitā pronouns to encourage more public, free-use trans it
you gotta be the change you want to see in the world
a good thing about having a trans therapist is when I said āyou know what? fuck it, Iām just not going to cis-centered spaces irl from now onā
she just made a loud, involuntary and gutteral laugh Iāve never heard her do before
sits next to you ,with a bowl of ice cream to share
silly but about meta
men will literally create a centralized fedi blocklist instead of going to therapy
when a guy tells me he likes rust my mind wanders and I imagine what sheās going to look like a year or two into transition
ahhhh yes, the two genders. āmaleā and āotherā
centralized online complaint keeping (cock) is a novel attempt to improve fediverse safety. in this design doc, i will
if I get laid off im gonna start a nonprofit trans dating site and to fuck with you all itās gonna be activitypub basedā¦ā¦ ⦠idk somehow
dating apps suck anyway, the guys are creepers and the girls so very rarely have penises
if I ever stop talking to you or get super quiet, itās usually because I somehow found out you were very pretty and now get too nervous when I try to think of something to say to interact with you
this happensā¦. a lot (Iād ask how yāall are so cute but I know the answer)
:blobfoxlurk2owonotice: remember boys are insecure. they donāt like it when you call their shirts āblousesā or even ātopsā
reminds me of a therapy session from a few weeks after I started HRT, which was a few months after I realized I was trans despite a lack of āconventional signsā:
āeven as a cis guy I would have loved not to smell like that gross boy smell, you donāt even need to be trans to benefitā
therapist: stares
āsame with hair removal! I would have started doing both when I was cis, itās just better! you donāt need to shave to look goodā
therapist: slightly tilts head
āall im saying is you donāt have to be trans to benefit from HRT and stuff, there are so many benefits even for cis menā¦ā¦ā
therapist: eyes get really big, head is now almost perfectly horizontal
āā¦ā¦. ohhhhhhhā
RE: https://chaosfem.tw/users/melon_knees/statuses/111280840644005347
Willy Wonka gets a lot of shit for basically employing "slave labor" with the oompa loompas. This is a reasonable, but naive and entirely incorrect conclusion.
Pause the film and read the long contract in the movie version of Willy Wonka. It starts with a red herring - an accident indemnity clause, how capitalist of him!!
After that, in much smaller print, it enrolls the children in a labor union for their natural lifespan.
Willy Wonka is a communist and criticism of how he runs his factory is capitalist nonsense.
even aside from the transphobia, socializing in a cishet space sucked ass (bad).
there's a certain misery that comes with meeting a new cis person... it happens during the few seconds while they kinda dumbly mentally process my existence into something understandable :knife_girl:
do cis people think theyāre being slick with their transphobia?
yesterday i went to see some friends perform. after the show I was talking with a group of 3 of them, and this other guy i know comes over. he says hi to two mutual friends, introduces himself to the third person he didnāt know, and entirely ignored me for ~5 minutes.
also, notably, my cis ally friends said nothing while i stood there awkwardly, watching a grown man avoid making eye contact with the tranny with an almost panicked intensity