transister.social

do cis people think they’re being slick with their transphobia?

yesterday i went to see some friends perform. after the show I was talking with a group of 3 of them, and this other guy i know comes over. he says hi to two mutual friends, introduces himself to the third person he didn’t know, and entirely ignored me for ~5 minutes.

also, notably, my cis ally friends said nothing while i stood there awkwardly, watching a grown man avoid making eye contact with the tranny with an almost panicked intensity

Hi I’m Ginny and a new server means new #introduction post!

I spent the first decades of my life as a generic white boy in tech. A few months ago I signed up for my first fedi account and quickly discovered I was a girl! What!!

If you like quirky, confused girl memes and posts about the inscrutable behavior of cis folks ~ you should probably follow me.

I also post about all the stereotypical girl stuff: videogames, linux distros (fedora ofc), transgender stuff, programming, reading, writing, being actually autistic, and shoes. I like shoes a lot.

While I haven’t done anything shareable recently, I write fiction and also the occasional trans101 post for cis folks. “You seem to be running your own custom build of crazy, maybe you should write about that” ~ a former writing instructor

I’ve made a lot of friends on fedi and want to keep making more! If you ever want to chat, need shoe advice/pictures, or just need some one to listen <3. My contact stuff is on my profile :). I’m kinda shy and don’t always know what to say but I continue to try :P

I’m a single trans parent of an 8 year old girl (the source of my most popular post ever), and continue to work as a software engineer in the Seattle area. More deets on my pronouns.cc page or personal website: fr.wtf

secret: i like head pats and being flirted with

#trans #parent #programming #transgender #cute #shoes #shoes #shoes

I love not being a boy

it's just *good writing* that the girls have penises by default

im worried about asking for a haircut style and my stylist sighing because it's not a real hair thing outside of anime profile pictures

even if it could frame my face cutely

we should all get one of those presidential sashes in Barbie i think

but you put whatever,,, your job, your name or nickname, insta handle, a picture of your pet turtle :agoogleturtle:

everyone gets to pick what their sash says :blobcatscience: ,,,

mine would say something bitchin'
like

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ginny

uhm where do all the catbois hang out on fedi :blobpleading:

asking for a friend who basically needs to pet their furs and also scritch such as their ears :ablobpats:

amab: allegedly male at birth

Fedi is basically a forum except you can only read the posts in chronological order, then sometimes when you click into a thread you only see a third of the posts.

People making the design decisions cannot be using this like normal (ie, trans) people do.

y'all my ex-wife got outsmarted by the pet rats. they have all escaped.

her recovery plan is "I put a ladder to make it easy to come home" and wait

I'm dying

mutual aid for lonely transfemmes (me)

cool feature of HRT is anytime I get angry I instantly become paranoid my testosterone levels have increased

The fucking impracticality of my kitchen organization is the strongest evidence yet that I'm plural.

My trans journey began with ancient knowledge - a bible, of sorts - passed on to me by a wise and benevolent possum

my life is awesome

anecdotally the site turn me into a girl has a 100% success rate :demigirl_potion:

boys are the undersized fuse that trips when you use your hair dryer and curling iron at the same time, then asks why it takes you so long to get ready

the “oh they have a linux binary“ to disappointment pipeline

Today in awkward transphobia: guy inside restaurant notices me walking toward entrance, he leaves through the entrance door to hold it open for me (already awkward), clocks me as trans, stands confused holding and blocking the door for a good 20 seconds, goes back in while closing the door.

I wait for all that then enter like a normal person